What's the one thing you would never change about yourself?
I can find an honest connection in almost every person I meet. And, it's a genuine connection. It doesn't necessarily mean we're soul mates, or destined lovers, or future BFF. It simply means we're human, and deep down, we're the same, vulnerable, caring human being. I can "get" what you're going through...despite your job, race, sexual orientation, religious preference, age, etc. And, if it's a situation I haven't experienced, I can put myself in a hypothetical situation and try to understand in a totally non-judgmental way what you're going through. I think people feel I provide an emotional safe haven for them, which I hope is true. That connection I find with people causes them to feel comfortable and honest. People can "unload" on me and share their dark fears and illogical thoughts. I feel truly fortunate to be trusted to bear their emotional weight because I completely understand what it's like to be suffocated by your own baggage.
Even when I'm trying to be a badass and say I don't, I do truly care..to a degree of fault, even. I care about the comfort level of that unknown person left out at the party as much as I care about my best friend's battle with severe depression. I want those people to know they're never alone. I know I will continue to connect with people the rest of my life, and my friendships are so rich as a result.
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